Step 1: What does being feminine look like to you?
Being feminine is not about following a rigid set of rules or checking off a list. Feminine energy and what feels feminine will look and feel different for everyone. So, what does being feminine mean to you? Take a moment, grab a pen and paper or open your notes app, and write down whatever comes to mind when you think of femininity in your own life. There’s no right or wrong answer—it’s about how you connect to it. To inspire you, here are a few of my personal favorites: Flowing floral dresses Simple, short nails A bouncy blowout Sweet vanilla scents Chic cami pajama sets Now it’s your turn—start creating your list and embrace your unique version of femininity!
Step 2: Find your Person
Finding your person is about identifying 1-2 individuals who inspire the type of feminine energy you want to embody. This could be a celebrity, influencer, or even a character from a TV show or movie. These "muses" should resonate deeply with your personal vision of femininity. Maybe their style, mannerisms, or overall aura aligns with the energy you aspire to bring into your own life. You might choose one for light, soft femininity and another for dark, powerful femininity—or focus entirely on one type. The key is to find someone whose vibe feels authentic to your vision of femininity and inspires you to step into your own. Once you've identified them, take note of their fashion choices, how they carry themselves, and the energy they radiate. Use these as a guide to craft your own unique feminine expression.
Now that you’ve gathered your notes, inspirations, and muses, it’s time to bring everything together in one place. Create a Pinterest board or use a vision board app to collect visuals that represent your unique feminine style and energy. This board will act as your personal blueprint, helping you identify your unique pillars of femininity. By having everything in one place, you’ll not only stay inspired but also create a clear roadmap to embody the feminine energy you’ve envisioned.
Step 3: Pinterest it!
Now that you’ve gathered your notes, inspirations, and muses, it’s time to bring everything together in one place. Create a Pinterest board or use a vision board app to collect visuals that represent your unique feminine style and energy. This board will act as your personal blueprint, helping you identify your unique pillars of femininity. By having everything in one place, you’ll not only stay inspired but also create a clear roadmap to embody the feminine energy you’ve envisioned.
